WhY Do tHe peoPle yOu carE abOut huRt yOu tHe mOsT?

I've never really bothered much about how people treated me in the past, as I figured that if I never did anything to intentionally hurt someone, then they would also afford me the same courtesy. Sadly, being nice does not make the world go round. It actually allows people to discover your weakness and use it against you....in other words, it gives them the cruel opportunity to walk all over you. You might think that people would have the conscience to not wanna cause hurt, but people like that are actually a rare commodity these days.

So then I took it upon myself to only associate with people that meant something to me. Those who you can count on to always be there and tell you the right side up. I went along and did just that. In the beginning it seemed to work. I felt good and seemed to be rather positive.

The lesson that I learnt from this is that even the closest people to you are in one way or another just out to get you. No one is ever really nice to you just because they want to be. They are nice because they see something that they can get out of you, and when they succeed, they leave. It's just human nature. Really......people cannot be blamed for this. It's how we are built. So what separates the good people from the bad.......you might ask? Simple ! Good people will always be honest. They will tell you the truth even if they know it's gonna hurt. Bad people on the other hand will conceal the truth, mislead you with beautiful lies and convince you that you are being over cautious........and then when you let your guard down, they come at you and bite your head off ! Hah.....too late, 'cos you would have never seen that coming !

Anyway, my point is, the closer you get to a person, the more you should be aware. People who are truly open and honest are those you want in your life. You can never really trust someone......as TRUST is a huge word for most people, and those with small minds never can quite understand its meaning !

Truly, the only person you can trust is yourself. No one knows better than you ! When this feeling hits, then good things start to happen for you. If someone did want to trust you, they would without rhyme or reason. And if they didn't, they you will be exposed to a whole new realm of ridiculous excuses ! While it might be amusing to listen to.....it can sometimes hurt.

None the less, simply put, the reason people you care about hurt you the most is because you actually do care for them. Because if you didn't, it would never affect you. You know that saying.......life just has to go on......well, it does. So honestly, being hurt is normal. It makes you human ! What counts is how you pick yourself up and move on after being trampled on ! I absolutely believe that what doesn't kill you.....only makes you stronger !!!

Be tHankFuL!

It’s the people who try to eradicate every hint of sadness and anger out of human existence I fault. Negative emotions are a vital part of the human condition and it isn’t until we experience them that we truly appreciate the positive opposites. In other words, one needs sadness in their lives to be able to fully recognize happiness when they come across it. Without anger, we can never appreciate the calm; our hatred and indifference emphasis our love. To deprive oneself of any emotion characteristic to our nature is to deny the very things that make us human. Our minds work the way they do for a reason.They are not broken.

I realised the reality of this when my friend sent me this mail on how a 9 month old baby was raped by 6 men. We live in such horrific times now that sometimes it makes you wonder.......what next? Can it get much worse? Or will it ever get better?

So really, it just makes sense to appreciate what you have. Live life the way that you have always wanted to and never let anyone tell you that you cannot ! Seize the moment because if you don't, you never know when you will ever get the chance do it again. The world is moving at such a dramatic pace that there no longer is such a thing as certainty. People who wait....procrastinate.....are those that will one day realise that the wait was not even worth that much. Doesn't mean that you rush into things and be careless.......just have a little common sense.

It's actually okay to be sad. It does not make you a manic depressive ! It only shows that you have the right emotions that were embedded into us ! Just be thankful and live everyday as if it were your last.

Old oFFice

This is the reason why i've been busy lately as office move to new place at solaris mon't kiara..i even worked on weekend to clean n pack all documents...working at legal firm is not easy when u need to move to the new place..the pic show how tired n busy am i and i will post new off pic soon.

Zach's room..clean by himslef ( one of the partners )

Zach's pose after finished clean de room

Library

Library..so messy

Again our library

Litigation Dept

Company's Name

Account room

Soh mei shoes..hiaks!!

Soh Mei place..so messy

Mark Ho room ( One of the partners )

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